Sunday, 29 May 2016

The Extension of God's Hand

The Extension of God's Hand

As we go to church today to stand on the pulpit to lead, preach and to pray, sit in the pews to listen and Worship or in the aisle to serve, let us remember that we can't say we love, serve or Worship God who we don't see when we don't love those children of His that we see and Worship together...

We must keep in mind that behind the facade of good looking dresses are empty stomachs, aching hearts and depressed minds in need of answers.

We must remember that God would rather use the resources we have tangible or not tangible to answer someone's prayers and troubles and the person will give God thanks for answered prayers.

We must not forget the situation of the economy not to remember that many are only going to church because they see hope in God and in His people...

If you have silver and gold, remember it's Worship to share and if you have something else use it to be a help to someone today...

It's hypocritical to think everyone should be hardworking and should have faith to turn water to wine or multiply two fishes and five loaves to feed thousands...so that we may be absolved of any responsibility of caring and sharing with them..

It's foolhardy to think since we have our own needs sharing with others can wait till we have all sufficiency in all things... If we wait we won't ever have the opportunity to be...

But when we do, we become the extension of God. We become His hands. And so He strengthens us and empowers us. He in turn becomes indebted to us because he who cares for the poor lends to the Lord and the Lord will pay back with interest...

But when we shut up own bowels of compassion, and we turn off our sensitivity and become untouched by what is happening around us we show that we haven't shared in the love of God and we aren't partakers yet of  divine nature...

And to those who would do it without humility and love. Who would seek the appreciations of men and would decline when they aren't duly recognised... We must understand that it's only a privilege to be an extension of God in this regards and if we won't do, our not doing won't stop God from doing what He would do...

If we won't Worship as we should, stones can be used to do so in our stead...

We should see these times as the opportunity to reveal the love of Christ to all...

It's time to remind ourselves that The Lord is our Shepherd, it's time to declare that He will meet all our needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus. It's time to remember the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ that though He was rich yet He became poor so that through His poverty we might become rich...

We should remind ourselves that the young lion do lack and suffer hunger but they that seek the Lord shall not lack anything good...

We should remember no to have anxiety about anything but remember that as we seek first the kingdom of God all the things we need shall be added unto us...

We should remember that the psalmist testified that he had been young and old, he never saw the righteous forsaken nor his seed begging bread...

We should remember that God opens His hands and satisfies the desires of all living...

We should be bold in declaration and in helping others to remember these things to inspire faith and not unbelief, doubt and fear at such a time as this...

And we shouldn't forget to pray for our nation and leaders...we should declare apolitically the will of God over this nation and the arrest of evil... If we would turn from evil and seek the Lord and pray... He will intervene in mercy and heal our land... The peace of this nation is our peace...

And so be an agent of God and the extension of His hand and grace in Christ today, this week and always...

Happy Sunday and Have a great week...

Don't forget

Sex and marriage stability, the Bible stand
Friday, 3rd June 2016, 10am

@Havila Place
#46 DF Street
Opposite Bobcat Hotel
By D Mama's Pride Supermarket
Mosan Road
Shagari Federal Estate
Iyana Ipaja Lagos

You're invited...refer someone also...

Sunday, 22 May 2016

A Fireman, Not a Victim!

A Fireman, Not a Victim!

This week, let's remember that in all the challenges that may come, that the love of God, His grace, power, wisdom and His Spirit are with us. Let's always remember that they are more that be with us than they that be against us, if God be for us who can be against us and succeed?

Let us never forget that God cares and would want us to cast all our burdens on Him, so that we have no anxiety at all. Let's remember that His presence goes with us and He will never leave nor forsake us. Let's reject despair and fear and whatever the enemy, Satan and his agents may want to offer us...Let's be bold in faith and in confidence... Let's not cast away our confidence and consistency in God... We can resist the enemy and He will flee...

Let's remember that faith pleases God. If we will stand in faith with God by His Word, God will also stand with us with His power and grace...

You aren't defined with God by your weaknesses if you can offer them to God in exchange for His grace. You maybe weak morally, don't let that be your final destination, grace is available to succeed in living in holiness if you will exchange that weakness for God's grace.

You may be weak in your body by reason of sicknesses or diseases, don't see that as the end, if you can offer it at the Cross of Christ for His healing grace, there's healing in Jesus name.

You may be weak financially as your needs become like unsurmountable mountains, that's not a reason to become desperate, depressed, afraid and despondent to the point of developing evil and suicidal tendencies...take it to the Lord at the cross and His grace that made supplies available when He became poor that we might be rich will kick in to open opportunities and supply needs... Who said the impossible can't happen today again, who said water can't come from the rock, who said manna can't still fall if that's all God has to meet your needs... Trust God and don't be afraid...

In our nation today, it all seems as if the economy will crush everyone...and people's characters are changing in the bid to make more money and to conserve more without going less on comfort and so giving may be the quickest thing to be thrown out of the budget...

Child of God there is no better time to give than now. See yourself as a solution to the problem and not a victim of the situation. Victims panic, yet saviors rescue in time of calamity. This is the time to be a fireman. Run towards the fire, fully kitted with the grace of God to save a family. This is the time to be the widow of Sarepath who shared her last meal in faith and secured her future and that of her only son...

There's no better time that this to display what makes the kingdom of God different. Not in mere boasting but in living out the divine nature deposited within us. This is the time to feel what people feel and to make a difference in their lives by being compassionate. It isn't a time to be self defensive...

It is not a time to take advantage of the weak. To evil people, the weak becomes easy targets to plunder at such a time as this. This is the time to prove your strength by giving the weak a hand... It is the time to develop the fireman attitude, to rise as saviors from the mount of Jacob in favor of the most vulnerable...

Firemen are never victims they are ever on duty to make a difference not just because of trainings but because of their hearts of gold...

The child of God has been equipped with a heart of divinity. The newness of the love of Christ that constrains from within. The love of God shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit. We are well equipped to display the perfection of our heavenly Father who reaches out to both the good and the evil...and there's no better time than to do that than in such times as this when people are so hard up...

We have been equipped with the power and the wisdom of God in Christ Jesus, He is the wisdom and the power of God, we have the Holy Spirit who leads us to profit and teaches us the way to go...we are battle ready to save somebody with a heart of compassion and unconditional love...

When darkness covers the earth and gross darkness the people, we have a promise that then our light will come and the glory of the Lord shall rise upon us and the people shall come into the brightness of our rising... We are lights, let's shine...

Don't talk weakness, don't talk failure, don't talk defeat, we are Firemen we aren't victims...

It's going to be a great week... Go in this thy might, create a miracle and return with testimonies...of how you made a difference in people's lives... As a well equipped fireman... You aren't a victim... You are a savior! Save the day... Good Morning

Wednesday, 18 May 2016

The Bandwagon and The Brandwagon

The Bandwagon and the Brandwagon

In spiritual matters, just as in anything in life, precision matters. We have to know exactly what we are getting into and to make decisions based on adequate knowledge of subject matters.

To be a Christian for instance many understand the shallow end, good enough to get 'born again'. Many made the commitment by answering an altar call and saying a confession after a preacher. And that's all.

The essence of that is lost as other doctrinal beliefs kick in. Many don't know what it means to be born again according to scriptures, they don't even care enough to check the Scriptures that made reference to being born again, they just took it at the word of the preacher and what's commonly believed among the congregation they belong.

If this is done to the one most important phenomenon in the doctrine of Christ, what would have been done to other issues that affect our daily walk with God?

This is what I call the Bandwagon or the Brandwagon effect in the beliefs of Christian doctrine. It is about what my church, my group or denomination believes. They are not always right no matter how different they may be to others.

No one ever gets everything perfectly right. The scriptures say we know in part and we prophesy in part. We grow in the knowledge of God and we walk with the light we have per time.

Problem comes when we institutionalize what we know at present. We make what we know into a brand and lock it down, cast in iron not ready for any further understanding in the subject matter, sometimes build a denomination on that with a constitution to back it up...and make it illegal, as in something prosecutable to say a word to push forward any further light along those lines.

But Jesus said there were many things He would have taught the disciples which they couldn't receive at the time. We don't always have all the lights all the time. The book of Hebrews 5, tells of so many things the primary recipients needed to know but didn't due to their level of maturity.

We need to realise that the Holy Spirit is the Teacher, and we should be open to His teaching at all times. The Bible too is an open book that anyone can read and understand. We get into the bandwagon system when we allow others do the study of God's word for us without asking the questions that border our hearts.

Those questions are the keys to unlocking the hidden treasures of God's word. We mustn't palliate them, we should rather prayerfully seek God's answers through His Word and His Spirit to unravel hidden mysteries of God without being bound by whatever doctrinal bandwagon that does all to maintain a brand...in honor of God and His Word...

Good Morning

Tuesday, 3 May 2016

The Teachers must return

http://www.charismanews.com/opinion/watchman-on-the-wall/56830-prophet-insists-he-was-framed-for-selling-photos-from-his-trip-to-heaven

My heart was full of passion for the body of Christ as I wrote this, how I wish we read with an open, Christ-centred heart to the very end...

We can't go too far from the Word, rightly divided before getting into all sorts of vain jangling that leads to destruction... The downside of this kind of prophets is that they can't endure sound doctrines and those who can't endure sound doctrines like them fall for them...

In Africa, the myriads of problems, both real and adopted and the way we view them make the average African vulnerable and susceptible to such deceptions.

We don't view temptations or trials as been common to man, we don't trust in God's faithfulness to know that He will not permit a temptation that's more than we can bear, we hardly see any hope that God will make a way of escape...many don't believe in their personal relationship with God, they rate other people's anointing above their personal walk with God and above their closets and heartfelt prayers...we believe until some so and so prophets lead prayers, God won't answer, until some so and so men of God give us prayer points the Holy Spirit can't help our infirmities to know what we should pray for as we ought.

We forget that preachers are sent not so that they can call on our behalf but so that hearing them we can have faith to call by ourselves...since it is a principle that whosoever Shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved...the same God over all is rich unto all who call upon Him...

We then turn our gatherings from a place where we encourage each other from the hardening of sin as we see the day approaching to a consulting arena of a witch doctor (babalawo) running a jamboree...or a festival...

We erode the faith of people from simple prayers of agreement and intercession in love for each other and instead place that faith in some special anointing of a personality without which no one else can pray and have results... In fact, in some places, no one unauthorised can casually pray for or with  another within the premises...
I know whatever overthrows the faith of people is mere or vain jangling or babbling as Apostle Paul wrote to Timothy...
The truth on ground is that many people's faith in fundamental principles of Christ have been overthrown and we are already threading on dangerous grounds...

But who's fault?

There was a time in Israel when there was no true God, no law and no teaching priests... Everyone did as he felt and there was no peace to those going in or going out...

At that time, God didn't die, the law wasn't burnt and there were priests... The problem was that the Priests didn't take the law to teach it so that faith might rise in the heart of people towards the true God...

The difference between the true God and the false gods is the doctrine and the faith that builds out of those teachings. False teachings and superstitions raise faith in false gods, and the truth of the glorious gospel of Christ raises faith in the true God...

Both the true God and the idols of the heart are unseen, the only way to trace which God is being served is to trace whose Word is being preached and taught.

When we have people who have itching ears, who love cunningly devised fables rather than the truth of God's word, who prefer superstitions and weird fairytales to deep spiritual truths, you have a ground ready to receive false gods...

When you have people who won't check again if those things preachers told them were true from God's word, then you have a people ready to receive Jezebel as teacher...

But what alternatives do people have when they see not their teachers? When teachers are far away from them, what can they do than to listen to superstitions and scary tales that gender fear and unbelief?

Teachers, called of God must set themselves free from the bandages where they have been caged, they must unlock the padlocks holding their lips and begin to publish the the truth and the understanding of God's mysteries. Teachers must arise and move to their house tops to reach as many as can still be rescued so that the true God can manifest again amongst His people.

Teachers must dust the law and the principles of the gospel of Christ and raise the banner of God against the prevalent disorder in the doctrinal management of the body of Christ.

Pastors and undershepherds must review their doctrinal bases and locate teachers to teach the truth beyond denominational pet doctrines that has perpetrated unrighteousness amongst us.

People that must preach or teach congregations should be people filled with the grace and the Spirit of the truth, wisdom and revelation. People called to teach must be given open doors to teach and bring understanding of the knowledge of God otherwise we remain groping in pride. Many pulpits are filled with church politics and not with clear cut gifts of the Holy Spirit to teach God's word... No man should take the honour upon himself except those called...

If we do this, I'm sure churches can be saved... And many set free, with lots of mind renewed

Christ must be learned and so must be taught otherwise we follow something else...

[My Offline Bible] 2 Chronicles 15
3 Now for a long season Israel hath been without the true God, and without a teaching priest, and without law. 4 But when they in their trouble did turn unto the LORD God of Israel, and sought him, he was found of them. 5 And in those times there was no peace to him that went out, nor to him that came in, but great vexations were upon all the inhabitants of the countries.

[My Offline Bible] 2 Timothy 2
15 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. 16 But shun profane and vain babblings: for they will increase unto more ungodliness. 17 And their word will eat as doth a canker: of whom is Hymenaeus and Philetus; 18 Who concerning the truth have erred, saying that the resurrection is past already; and overthrow the faith of some. 24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,

[My Offline Bible] Ephesians 4
20 But ye have not so learned Christ;

[My Offline Bible] Colossians 2
6 As ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him: 7 Rooted and built up in him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been taught, abounding therein with thanksgiving. 8 Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

[My Offline Bible] Isaiah 30
20 And though the Lord give you the bread of adversity, and the water of affliction, yet shall not thy teachers be removed into a corner any more, but thine eyes shall see thy teachers:

Thursday, 28 April 2016

Bringing Leadership Home :Accountability

Bringing Leadership Home: Accountability

[My Offline Bible] Matthew 18
23 Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants.

[My Offline Bible] Hebrews 13
17 Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.

Being accountable is one thing so difficult for people. Demand for accountability is received as a doubt on one's integrity. At times it is seen as questioning one's high office. Many seek high offices or leadership positions in order to avoid being accountable to anyone.

Meanwhile accountability is the mark of nobility. We can't have the kind of freedom that absolves us of accountability. Accountability is a mutual responsibility between the leader and the led in a true and responsible leadership system. You have no right to lead a people you won't be accountable to and once you submit to a leader you have a responsibility of being accountable to such.

In our offices, we demand accountability from every officer including the leader. We account for every resource, from money to materials, from time to people, from raw materials to finished products, activities and events are expected to be accounted for. Daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly and yearly we account for the metabolism of the system to know what's building up, what's degrading and why. We account for everything to know where waste, negligence, diversion and such like are undermining the purpose and the success of the system.

When our accounts are adequately monitored we are informed as to what direction to put in which and more efforts and in so doing we build great systems that sustain all stakeholders.

But at home, accounting for what we have and do is seen as unnecessary, yet we got married to care and to hold...

To ask how time was spent is tantamount to barging into one's privacy. To ask how money was spent is seen as subtle control. To ask what kind of people we flock with is curbing one's movements. To demand explanation for anything is undermining one's trustworthiness. Eventually people become afraid of demanding accountability and of course, come under the threat of the repercussions of lack of accountability.

The people who our errors and mistakes will hurt the most deserve our accountability. We have a responsibility to give account of what we have in money and materials, of what we do with our time and of the people in our lives to those who care the most about us. particularly our spouses.

I once listened to Dr Tunde Joda of Christ Chapel International Churches say, if lots of men in prisons had listened to their wives they wouldn't have found themselves there. I believe same goes also for women. Yet, those we feel shouldn't demand accountability from us end up suffering when we had abused the resources put in our trust.

If it's good at the office, it'll be better at home. If you need to clock in and out at work to honor your contract with your employers to make the company work smoothly and become great, then do same at home. Tell where you are leaving home for, give an account of your day. When asked why you came in late or early, tell why. It shouldn't call for a fight. When asked how money is spent, don't turn it into a quarrel because when you turn out badly the spouse asking will suffer for it... When your spouse questions the kind of friends you flock with please take caution and safe your home from unnecessary pain.

Inability to give account naturally cast a doubt of the activities in question. It's a sign that things untoward are being done.

It's of no use lying too. Lying about accounts is a sign that such hasn't gotten the essence and the importance of accountability. Lies may cover errors for a while but a hidden sore will only fester, it won't heal. It's better to submit to treatment early before it claims something that can't be replaced.

Accountability keeps us safe and preserves us. It helps to spread liabilities as we enjoy our assets. It helps to know what progress we are making and how to move faster towards accomplishing purpose...

We do this as part of best business and management practices at the work place and we should bring it home to encourage peace and sincerity in love...and so build strong homes capable of withstanding any kind of storm...

Let's do this.

Good morning. Share this with friends, you may be saving a generation.

Join us this Saturday 12noon @

Pneuma Worship Centre
Winsford Primary School
Igbogbo, Ikorodu

As we discuss marriage and relationship in contemporary times and how to make our homes a bliss...

Gods blessings!

Wednesday, 27 April 2016

Bringing Leadership Home: Vision and it's Communication

Bringing Leadership Home : Vision and it's  Communication

[My Offline Bible] Proverbs 29
18 Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he. 23 A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit.

[My Offline Bible] Habakkuk 2
2 And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.

[My Offline Bible] 1 Corinthians 14
8 For if the trumpet give an uncertain sound, who shall prepare himself to the battle?

Leaders are led by visions. The people who are led follow vision and not just the leaders. The connection between the leader and the led is the quality of communication system installed in between them.

No system should be run without a vision. Lives and team entities so run will be in constant confusion and conflict. Where there is no vision, people cast off restraints. Vision is a guide that helps our blindness. We are blind without vision.

When the blind leads the blind, they both end in a ditch, so said our Lord Jesus Christ.

The vision connects with the leader's heart and the the leader's heart to his mouth and his mouth to the ears and the hearts of the led. Any disconnect in the pathway results in relationship dysfunction that threatens body safety and productivity.

Leaders are called heads not just for being on top but for the organs residing in it. The head houses the brain, the eyes, the olfactory, the hearing, the tasting and the speaking and it can also feel. And so it feels from and for the body and process the information received to be able to respond and give commands that will ensure the well being of the entire system.

When the body cannot exchange information with the body, the body is left to suffer external aggression up to death.

When good intentions are badly communicated the result is confusion and discord.

A vision may be developed from the mental picture of a preferred state, maximised potential, desires accomplished, problem solved, needs met and purpose fulfilled.

Meanwhile, God given vision is powered by the Word of God and the Holy Spirit to accomplish all these in times appointed.

When the vision is a corporate vision that involves more than one person or a team, it must first foster unity and oneness in purpose and in pursuit if it is to be achieved.

A corporate vision is what leaders work with which when fulfilled creates a platform upon which individuals personal visions can thrive to fulfilment. Leaders can't afford to lead with their personal visions.

Communication is crucial in leadership. In Habakkuk, God said the vision must be clearly written so that those who will run with it will be able to read and draw inspiration, direction, motion and speed to accomplish it.

A vision not properly communicated will cause more confusion than solve a problem. When  the communication system of a team is negatively affected, confusion sets in and the noblest of projects become abandoned.

In Genesis 11, God saw that the people were one in rebellion and there was nothing they had imagined to do that they wouldn't be able to accomplish and the only way out was to hit their communication system and it worked. It always works.

Great corporations have been built by following the rules of effective communication and to build a home we must bring that same system that works at work home.

Our God given vision for our homes must be well communicated to help us focus on what's important and be blinded to distractions. When it is properly communicated, we share our good intentions and commit all we are and have to great futures together as couples work together towards their preferred havens.

The root of so many problems is the inability of couples to express their good intentions, hopes and aspirations for their marriages in a way that the other can understand, appreciate and get involved in.

That's why understanding the language the other person speaks and the wavelength at which he or she hears is crucial.

Just as organizations create convenient and established communication pathways, homes too should and the couple should be committed to it.

Just as a corporate leader won't lead without a vision and wouldn't operate without painting the picture clearly for his team same way we shouldn't lead at home without a vision properly communicated.

When visions aren't properly communicated, it compounds the confusion of the led and response is derailed not for rebellion but for lack of understanding. Many followers' mistakes are results of this and better outcomes are received by correcting the error in communication than correcting the follower.
Homes are prone to our error of taking things for granted and anything not attended to turns out badly. Vision and it's communication are thing we shouldn't take for granted. Objectives and goals must be shared and mutually committed to. There shouldn't be pursuits that's not contributive to the overall vision of the home and that's coordinated by proper communication and there shouldn't be a vision not incorporated into the overall vision otherwise the house will be divided and it won't stand that also is done by vision.

My question is, what is the vision you run with concerning your home and marriage? Is the vision shared or it is just you running? Are you living in assumptions that your spouse has a good understanding of the vision picture?

We can't afford not to work with a God given vision for our home and that vision must be made crystal clear for the other person to run with...

My prayer is that God will give grace to do whatever our homes need to create a place of comfort and bliss for a lifelong peace and quiet for ourselves in Jesus name.

Good morning.

Join us tonight by 6pm at

The Bible Class, TBC
Havila Place
#46 DF Street
Mosan Road
Shagari Federal Estate
Iyana Ipaja
Lagos

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Monday, 25 April 2016

Bringing Leadership Home: Where the Buck Stops

Bringing Leadership Home: Where the Buck Stops

When great things are achieved by a team, a corporate body or a nation, it is attributed to the leader. When they are underachieving too, the blame is to the leader.

We all know he wasn't the only person building but the oversight is his or hers and the overall credit or blame goes same way.

So we always say, the buck stops at the leader's table.

But leadership goes beyond being in position. It is the influence exacted to make people do what it takes to become who they were made to be and to play effectively the role they should in an organization.

It is the taking responsibility of making positive things happen towards the accomplishments of overall goals and vision of the corporate entity.

So at home, where does the buck stop?

Adam ate the fruit given him by Eve. But he claimed the wife God gave him was the cause of the whole trouble.

[My Offline Bible] 1 Timothy 2
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

Though Eve was the conduit of the trouble, the man wasn't spared. It wasn't an excuse that she caused the transgression, Adam still got the full dose of the repercussions.

That's because his excuse wasn't tenable. Same with the excuse of the woman. They were both responsible.

Taking responsibility is a character people hardly loves to take. Many who take responsibility do so to press for something. Men take responsibility to establish their authority. Women take responsibility to draw from their husbands. And when what they seek isn't given the responsibility is withdrawn.

Taking responsibility is all about getting things done and taking the blame when it goes awry. Many dysfunctional marriages and divorces are filled with bucks passing and blame trading.

I once counselled a couple that had crisis. When taking a session with the man alone, I asked about who he thought was to blame for the bad situation of his home, he said his wife was to blame...
I asked if he had any contribution to the crisis, if he did something that could cause more trouble or refused to do something that could help... He insisted that he had done all he should do and didn't do anything that could cause a problem...

I congratulated him and told him, how the question was a trick. I told him he is the leader  and that all his leadership expertise and perfectness have only brought the family into crisis.

A people are where they have been led...

Leadership is about taking responsibility. If you don't want to take the blame, use the available tools to engage whoever would cause you trouble. If you wouldn't do what you should do, when trouble comes be ready to take the blame.

Many of us want to to take the credit we should also be ready to take the blame. When we walk in that consciousness that we would be blamed if things go awry then we'll be disciplined enough to do what we have to do to make things work.

As leaders, oversight is important and crucial to put day to day success. If someone isn't doing what will add to the overall success of the organisation, the right thing is to do what has to be done and get the person performing or cover for such person's lapses.

We must learn to cover for each other's lapses and compliment each other to produce the home we desire. To think since a role is not our responsibility and so should be left even when the person responsible isn't in a state to perform is to permit failure which will affect overall outcome...

Covering spaces for each other is therefore the sole responsibility we have. In a relationship where each person is ready to give all, passing the buck doesn't have a place...each person takes responsibility of overall outcome covering for the inadequacies of the other knowing that it'll be his or her fault if things go wrong...

Are you ready to take responsibility? The question is if you don't do it, who will?

The rule therefore is...

[My Offline Bible] Ecclesiastes 9
10 Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest.

Jesus Christ said, work while day, night is coming when no man can work...

Take total responsibility... The buck stops at your table... You are a leader!

Let's make our marriages work!

I pray God grant grace to do all that's necessary to make our marriages the bliss we desired... In Jesus name. Good morning!